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The Five Core Conversations for Couples
David Bulitt & Julie Bulitt
3.71 (116 Reviews)
Relationship
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Written by a top divorce lawyer and his therapist wife, "The Five Core Conversations for Couples" tackles relationship taboos from addiction to infidelity. What's the one conversation 87% of couples avoid that could save their marriage? Kirkus Reviews calls it "rollicking" wisdom worth every page.

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The Dance of Love: When a Therapist and Divorce Lawyer Share Their Bed

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What happens when an empathetic family therapist who "never met a stranger" marries a self-described jaded, pessimistic divorce lawyer? You get 30 years of relationship wisdom that balances hope with reality. Their unlikely love story began at a University of Maryland frat party - she was nursing a broken heart, he was simply looking for a hookup. Three decades later, they've witnessed relationships at both extremes: the beautiful beginnings and the bitter endings. Between them, they've seen every way a relationship can flourish or spectacularly fail. Their complementary perspectives create a perfect yin-yang approach to relationship advice that cuts through the typical self-help platitudes to offer something refreshingly honest and practical.

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Building and Maintaining Strong Foundations

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The Self-Care Imperative: Oxygen Masks First

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The Art of Communication: Speaking and Strategic Silence

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Financial Harmony in Relationships

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The Dance of Imperfection: Embracing What Is

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