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Resurrecting Sex
David Schnarch
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Renowned therapist Dr. David Schnarch revolutionizes intimacy in "Resurrecting Sex," helping couples overcome sexual difficulties through emotional connection rather than techniques. Called "the most compassionate book on sexual relationships" by experts, it transforms vulnerability into passion - what UCLA's Dr. Golden calls "growing up with better sex as the reward."

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When Sex Becomes a Struggle: The Hidden Epidemic in Our Bedrooms

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Imagine waking up next to someone you love deeply, yet feeling a vast emotional distance between you - especially in the bedroom. This scenario plays out in millions of homes worldwide, where couples silently struggle with sexual difficulties that feel uniquely shameful and isolating. Sexual problems aren't rare exceptions but remarkably common experiences. Studies show that 43% of women and 31% of men report significant sexual difficulties within a single year. One in five women doesn't enjoy sex, a quarter struggle to reach orgasm, and a third report disinterest in sex. For men, 52% between ages 40-70 experience erection difficulties, and one in four battles premature ejaculation. These aren't just cold statistics - they represent profound disappointment and disconnection in bedrooms nationwide. They translate to countless households where partners avoid intimacy, argue about mismatched desire, or mentally disconnect during sex. The prevalence of these issues should foster compassion for yourself and your partner. You don't have to be defective to struggle sexually, though believing you are defective is normal too. Understanding that sexual problems are practically a sign of normality can be the first step toward healing.

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The Quantum Model: How Your Sexual Response Really Works

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The Mind-Body Disconnect: When Arousal Becomes Elusive

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Relationship Dynamics: The Hidden Drivers of Sexual Problems

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Holding On to Yourself: The Path to Sexual Transformation

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Practical Solutions for Sexual Resurrection

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Finding Peace Through Sexual Connection

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