Single On Purpose by John Kim Summary
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In "Single On Purpose," therapist John Kim redefines singlehood as a journey of self-discovery, not a waiting room for love. Featured in Psychology Today and praised for its raw vulnerability, this guide challenges societal pressure while teaching radical self-acceptance that transforms your relationship with yourself.
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The Radical Journey of Purposeful Singlehood
Imagine a world where being single isn't something to endure but something to embrace. In "Single On Purpose," John Kim challenges our cultural obsession with romantic partnerships and offers a revolutionary perspective: what if the most important relationship you'll ever have is the one with yourself? This isn't just another dating guide for the lonely. It's a profound exploration of how intentional singlehood can break cycles of codependency and lead to authentic self-discovery. In an era when more adults are unmarried than ever before in history, Kim's message resonates deeply: being single isn't a waiting room for real life-it's an opportunity for profound personal transformation. Through motorcycle rides, CrossFit workouts, and raw personal stories, Kim demonstrates how embracing solitude can become the most empowering journey of your life. This isn't about giving up on love-it's about finding it first within yourself.
Reframing Loneliness: From Fear to Opportunity
Reclaiming Your Authentic Self
True Self-Care: Beyond Indulgence to Connection
Embodied Presence: Your Body as Home
Breaking Free from Mental Inheritance
Cultivating Wholeness: From Relationship Status to Life Purpose
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"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
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