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I'm Just Saying
Milan Kordestani
4.25 (7572 Reviews)
Communication skill
Relationship
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Leadership
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In a world where conversations divide us, "I'm Just Saying" offers practical wisdom for maintaining civil discourse. Praised for its meditation guides and Japanese approaches like Kaizen, Kordestani's book transforms how we communicate - a toolkit for anyone navigating today's increasingly polarized social landscape.

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When Words Became Weapons

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What happens when a thirteen-year-old learns more about conversation from selling turtles than most adults learn in a lifetime? This isn't a hypothetical question-it's the foundation of understanding why our ability to talk to each other has collapsed. We've replaced dialogue with warfare, where every conversation becomes a battle to win rather than an opportunity to understand. Social media algorithms feed us endless streams of content that confirms what we already believe, while cable news networks discovered that conflict drives ratings better than nuance ever could. We've built a world where being right matters more than being connected, where shouting drowns out listening, and where the very idea of changing your mind feels like admitting defeat. But here's the uncomfortable truth: we're all trapped in our own version of Plato's Cave, constrained by family expectations, professional obligations, and social identities that limit what we're willing to see. The way out isn't through louder arguments or cleverer comebacks-it's through the painstaking, often uncomfortable work of actually hearing each other. We've become so disconnected in the digital age-Americans check their phones 96 times daily-that we've replaced real human interaction with technological distraction, making us less resilient to awkwardness or disagreement.

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The Mirror Before the Conversation and the Compass You Need

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The Sound of Understanding

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The Foundation We Keep Forgetting

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Listening as an Act of Love

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The Courage to Disagree

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Reclaiming Our Shared Humanity

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