The War For Kindness by Jamil Zaki Summary
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In "The War for Kindness," Jamil Zaki reveals empathy isn't fixed - it's a muscle we can strengthen. Praised as "a masterpiece" by Angela Duckworth and endorsed by Carol Dweck as "landmark," this revolutionary book shows how ex-neo-Nazis and police officers alike transformed through cultivating compassion.
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When Strangers Become Real
What would you do if you could fire a paintball gun at a stranger from the comfort of your couch? Iraqi artist Wafaa Bilal discovered the answer when he locked himself in a gallery for thirty days, allowing anyone online to remotely shoot at him. People from 138 countries fired 60,000 rounds while typing hateful messages they'd never say face-to-face. The experiment wasn't performance art for its own sake-Bilal's brother had died from a drone strike, and he wanted to show how technology lets us hurt people without feeling their pain. This distance, this ability to disconnect from others' humanity, sits at the heart of our modern crisis. We live in an age of unprecedented connection yet declining empathy. But here's the surprising truth: empathy isn't hardwired or fixed. It's more like a skill we can choose to develop, a muscle we can strengthen through practice. The question isn't whether we're capable of empathy-it's whether we're willing to do the work.
The Changeable Brain and the Choice to Care
Training the Empathy Muscle
Breaking Down the Walls Between Us
When Caring Costs Too Much
Building Empathy Into the System
The Legacy We Leave Behind
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"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
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