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Against Empathy
Paul Bloom
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Paul Bloom's provocative bestseller challenges our moral intuitions: empathy actually makes us worse decision-makers. Named a New York Post Best Book of 2016, it sparked fierce academic debates by arguing that rational compassion - not emotional connection - creates a more just world.

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The Dark Side of Feeling Others' Pain

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Imagine being told that kindness and empathy-virtues we celebrate from childhood-might actually make us worse people. This is the provocative argument at the heart of Paul Bloom's "Against Empathy." When Bloom tells people about his book, they laugh as if he's said something absurd. Yet his thesis has sparked serious debate among psychologists, philosophers, and policymakers. Why? Because he challenges our fundamental assumptions about what makes us good. Bloom isn't against compassion or kindness-he's specifically targeting emotional empathy, the act of feeling others' pain as your own. This distinction is crucial. When a doctor treats a terrified patient, cognitive empathy (understanding their fears) helps, but emotional empathy (feeling their terror) could impair clinical judgment. The problem isn't caring about others; it's how we care that matters.

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Empathy's Spotlight: Bright but Narrow

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The Science: Weaker Than We Think

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Politics: No Party Owns Empathy

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Relationships: When Feeling Too Much Hurts

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Medicine: The Virtue of Professional Distance

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The Rational Path to Goodness

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