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The Science of Kissing
Sheril Kirshenbaum
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Explore the surprising science behind our most intimate gesture. Kirshenbaum reveals how kissing transcends cultural boundaries while offering health benefits. Cited by psychologists and relationship experts, discover why this universal language might be more powerful than words - and what your kissing style reveals about you.

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The Universal Language of Desire: Why We Kiss

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What happens in those brief moments when lips meet? That fleeting connection-sometimes awkward, sometimes electric-that can determine the course of a relationship? Kissing isn't just about romance-it's a complex exchange of sensory information, hormones, and evolutionary signals that have shaped human connection for millennia. From Hollywood's most iconic screen kisses to the longest recorded lip-lock (a marathon 31 hours and 30 minutes), this intimate exchange tells us more about ourselves than we might expect-revealing not just who we are, but who we're compatible with at the most fundamental level. The science of kissing, or "philematology," shows us that this seemingly simple act is anything but simple.

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The Evolutionary Origins: Why Humans Lock Lips

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Cultural Kissing: From Ancient Rome to Hollywood

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The Chemistry of Connection: What Happens When We Kiss

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The Gender Divide: Different Motivations for Intimacy

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The Perfect Kiss: Science-Backed Tips for Memorable Moments

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