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Surrender to Love
David G. Benner
Spirituality
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Psychology
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Surrender to Love unveils how embracing vulnerability transforms spiritual growth. Ruth Haley Barton made it required reading in her Transforming Community program, while Abbot Pennington called it "one of the most beautiful books I've ever read." What happens when you stop fearing and truly surrender?

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Beyond the Mask of Fear: Discovering Divine Love

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Have you ever wondered what might happen if you stopped running from love and simply surrendered to it? Imagine God thinking about you right now. What emotions do you picture on the divine face? Many of us unconsciously envision disappointment, judgment, or at best, conditional approval. But what if God is actually head-over-heels in love with you? What if God loves you recklessly and extravagantly just as you are-your sins neither surprising him nor reducing his love in the slightest? This radical view of divine love stands at the heart of spiritual transformation. While most religious traditions emphasize earning divine favor through discipline, good works, or adherence to law, Christianity makes the audacious claim that God's love is unconditional and initiating-a love that pursues us even when we're actively running away.

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The Fear That Blocks Our Path

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The Paradox of Surrender

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Swimming in Divine Love

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The Transformation Through Vulnerability

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Becoming Love: The Ultimate Goal

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The Journey Home to Union

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