Smart Sex by Emily Morse Summary
Overview of Smart Sex
"Smart Sex" revolutionizes intimacy with Dr. Emily Morse's groundbreaking guide to sexual intelligence. Dubbed "the Dr. Ruth of a new generation" by NYT, her mantra "Communication is lubrication" has even Christina Aguilera raving: "This is the type of sex talk we need more of!"
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The Pleasure Revolution: Reclaiming Your Sexual Intelligence
In a culture obsessed with productivity but starved for pleasure, Emily Morse's "Smart Sex" arrives as a revolutionary manifesto. What if pleasure isn't selfish but essential? As host of the wildly popular "Sex with Emily" podcast since 2005, Morse has answered thousands of intimate questions, developing what she calls "Sex IQ" - not a score of sexual knowledge but a framework for understanding yourself as a sexual being. Most people seek quick fixes for sexual problems: supplements for low libido or toys for orgasm difficulties. While these solutions help temporarily, they rarely address underlying issues. The book offers a comprehensive approach through five essential pillars that help clear away common myths about sex and provide a pathway to genuine connection - with yourself and others. Before exploring these pillars, we must understand desire itself. Your brain is your largest sexual organ - where desire and arousal begin. Recent research distinguishes between spontaneous desire (occurring automatically) and responsive desire (requiring stimulus). While spontaneous desire often dominates early relationships, responsive desire requires triggers like touch or affection to develop. Understanding which type you experience helps set realistic expectations for yourself and your relationships.
Embodiment: Returning to Your Sensual Self
Overcoming the Pleasure Thieves: Stress, Trauma, and Shame
Solo Sex: The Foundation of Sexual Empowerment
The Magic of Sexual Communication
Beyond the Basics: Expanding Your Sexual Horizons
Reclaiming Your Pleasure: The Path Forward
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"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
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