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Sad Little Men
Richard Beard
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Inside Britain's elite boarding schools lurk the origins of political dysfunction. Richard Beard's searing memoir-expose - praised by Tom Holland as "insanely readable" - reveals how emotional deprivation creates leaders like Boris Johnson, leaving readers questioning if privilege actually ruins empathy.

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Part 1: The Boarding School Experience

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I was just eight years old when my parents sent me away to boarding school. It was 1975, and I was not alone; Boris Johnson and David Cameron, men who would later shape the destiny of England, were also starting their journeys in similar institutions. My first school was Pinewood, a prep school on the edge of the Cotswolds, while Johnson went to Ashdown House and Cameron to Heatherdown. Those early days were marked by a profound sense of loneliness and fear. I quickly learned that the most important lesson for survival was to hide these feelings, even from myself. The letters I wrote home were designed to reassure my parents that I was okay, that they hadn’t been cruel by sending me away. But behind the surface banalities about weather, cricket, and sweeties, there was a scared, lonely little boy begging for the love he craved deeply. This emotional austerity started from the moment my parents drove away. A mother’s love was ‘a trick’ that lasted only until the beginning of each term. As I grew older, this sadness turned to anger, with a seething unspoken promise that someday, somehow, someone would have to pay.

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Part 2: The Culture of Public Schools

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Part 3: The Impact on Mental Health and Emotional Life

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Part 4: The Broader Consequences for Society

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Part 5: Personal Reflections and Generalisations

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Part 6: Conclusion and Reflection

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