Resisting Happiness by Matthew Kelly Summary
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Why do we sabotage our own happiness? Matthew Kelly's bestselling guide reveals the hidden resistance blocking your joy. With its transformative blend of spiritual wisdom and practical steps, this book has sparked a movement helping thousands break free from self-sabotage.
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The Invisible Enemy Within
Every morning, the alarm sounds. Will you rise or hit snooze? That simple choice represents your first daily battle against "resistance"-the invisible force that prevents you from becoming who you're meant to be. It wears countless disguises: procrastination, fear, self-doubt, instant gratification. We all want happiness-it's hardwired into our very being. Yet strangely, we actively resist it every day. You know what brings you joy-perhaps writing, exercise, quality time with loved ones-yet you battle resistance before engaging in these activities. Why do we avoid the very things that make us happy? Resistance thrives on keeping us distracted, comfortable, and slightly dissatisfied. We scroll through social media instead of working on our novel, watch TV instead of going to the gym, or stay late at work instead of having dinner with family. Most people live in what Kelly calls "comfortable misery"-rating their happiness at 6 or 7 out of 10 and accepting this as "good enough." We choose immediate comfort over long-term fulfillment, instant gratification over meaningful achievement, and familiar pain over uncertain joy.
The God-Sized Hole
The Whisper of Discontent
The Ten-Minute Revolution
Living with the End in Mind
Finding God in the Ordinary
Embracing Your Mission with Gratitude
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From Columbia University alumni built in San Francisco
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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