Plays Well with Others by Eric Barker Summary
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Debunking relationship myths with science, "Plays Well with Others" reveals why body language lies but voice intonation doesn't. Daniel Pink calls it "humorous and profound" - a guide to authentic connection in our increasingly lonely world.
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Key takeaways
When Expert Negotiators Can't Talk to Their Own Spouses
A hostage negotiator trained to talk down armed criminals confessed something startling: the techniques that work in crisis situations completely fail at home. Marriage therapists preach active listening, yet research reveals a harsh truth-these methods collapse when emotions run high. Most couples can't maintain composure during heated arguments, and even those who master the technique see only temporary relief before old patterns resurface. This gap between what works professionally and what works personally exposes why understanding human connection remains so elusive. We've spent centuries developing theories about relationships, yet the science reveals we're often confidently wrong about the people closest to us.
The Myth of Reading People
Why Being Nice Beats Being Clever
The Tyranny of First Impressions
What Friendship Actually Means
The Beautiful Mess of Vulnerability
When the Loneliest Place Is a Crowded Room
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"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
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"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
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"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
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"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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