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Managing Up by Mary Abbajay Summary

Managing Up
Mary Abbajay
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"Managing Up" transforms workplace survival into career triumph. Mary Abbajay's no-nonsense guide has become the secret weapon for professionals navigating difficult bosses - from micromanagers to narcissists. Ever wonder why some thrive under terrible leadership while others crumble? This book reveals why.

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The Career Truth No One Wants to Hear

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Think your hard work alone will get you promoted? Here's the uncomfortable reality: your relationship with your boss matters more than almost anything else in determining your career success. You can be brilliant, hardworking, and talented, but if you can't work effectively with the person above you, your career will stall. This isn't about fairness-it's about recognizing that your boss controls access to opportunities, resources, and advancement. They decide which projects land on your desk, whether senior leaders hear your name, and how your contributions get framed. The good news? You have more power than you think. Managing up isn't about manipulation or becoming a yes-person. It's about understanding what makes your boss tick and strategically adapting your approach to create success for everyone involved.

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Your Boss Won't Change-But You Can

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Cracking the Code: Is Your Boss an Innie or Outie?

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The Four Boss Personalities You Need to Master

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Taming the Micromanager: From Surveillance to Trust

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Surviving Narcissists, Impulsives, and Pushovers

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When to Walk Away: Recognizing the Poisoned Well

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