Just Listen by Mark Goulston Summary
Overview of Just Listen
In "Just Listen," FBI hostage negotiator Mark Goulston reveals the psychological keys to breaking through resistance. His "Empathy Jolt" technique, praised by crisis negotiators and business leaders alike, transforms confrontations into connections. Ever wonder why some people can defuse any situation? This book holds their secret.
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When Words Stop Working
A hostage negotiator faces a man with a shotgun, threatening to end his life. What does he do? He doesn't argue. He doesn't command. He simply says: "You seem really upset... and like you've got something important to say that no one's listening to." Within moments, the man lowers his weapon. This isn't manipulation-it's understanding a fundamental truth about human connection. When someone won't listen, pushing harder only drives them further away. The secret lies not in what you say, but in creating the space where others choose to listen. Whether you're dealing with a resistant teenager, a difficult boss, or a hostile client, the same principle applies: you can't force someone to hear you, but you can help them want to.
The Brain's Lockdown: Why Logic Fails When Emotions Run High
The Mirror Neuron Magic: Making Others Feel Felt
Be the Detective, Not the Peacock
The Counterintuitive Power of Showing Your Throat
Recognizing When to Walk Away
From Listening to Legacy: Creating Connections That Last
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"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
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"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
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"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
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"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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