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I Shouldn't Feel This Way
Alison Cook
4.3 (392 Reviews)
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Mindfulness
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Dr. Alison Cook's revolutionary guide unlocks emotional freedom through her acclaimed three-step method. Rated 9/10 by psychiatrists, this book helps readers navigate conflicting feelings with faith-based wisdom. Ever wondered why your emotions feel "wrong"? Discover the transformative "Comma, God" practice changing lives nationwide.

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Introduction: The Power of Naming What's Hard

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Have you ever found yourself caught in a whirlwind of conflicting emotions, unsure of how to make sense of them? I've been there too. As a psychologist with over two decades of experience, I've witnessed countless individuals grappling with the same challenge. That's why I wrote this book - to offer you a pathway out of emotional chaos and into clarity. In "I Shouldn't Feel This Way," I'll guide you through a transformative three-step process that has helped thousands find emotional freedom. This journey begins with a simple yet powerful act: naming what's hard. By acknowledging our difficult feelings without shame, we take the first crucial step towards understanding and managing them.

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The FRAME Process: Finding Clarity in Confusion

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Taming the Inner Critic: From Guilt to Grace

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Brave Action: Moving from Numbing to Courage

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The Path to Clarity: Embracing Your Authentic Self

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Conclusion: Your Invitation to Emotional Freedom

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