Big Feelings by Mollie West Duffy and Liz Fosslien Summary
Overview of Big Feelings
In a world where emotions are often suppressed, "Big Feelings" offers a lifeline. This bestseller by the creators of @LizandMollie helps navigate uncertainty, burnout, and regret with science-backed strategies. What if embracing discomfort - not avoiding it - is your path to thriving?
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When Life Feels Like Too Much
Picture a business traveler sitting in first class, exhausted despite the luxury, suddenly realizing: "If I'm here because of how many miles I've flown, my life is completely out of balance." This moment of clarity came to Mollie West Duffy in December 2018, but it could happen to any of us. We live in a world that glorifies busyness, pathologizes discomfort, and insists we should always be okay. Yet most of us spend significant time wrestling with feelings that seem too big to handle-uncertainty that keeps us awake at night, comparisons that make us feel inadequate, anger we're afraid to express, burnout we can't shake, perfectionism that paralyzes us, despair that swallows us whole, and regrets that haunt our quiet moments. Here's the truth no one wants to admit: these "big feelings" aren't abnormal. They're profoundly human. And learning to navigate them isn't about thinking your way out or pushing through-it's about understanding what these emotions are trying to tell you.
Navigating Uncertainty and the Comparison Trap
Anger's Hidden Gift and How to Unwrap It
Burnout's Real Cause and the Path Out
The Perfection Paradox That Keeps You Stuck
From Despair to Daylight
Making Peace With Roads Not Taken and Embracing Growth
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From Columbia University alumni built in San Francisco
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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