How to Work with (Almost) Anyone by Michael Bungay Stanier Summary
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Master relationship strategist Michael Bungay Stanier delivers the ultimate playbook for navigating workplace dynamics. Endorsed by business titans like Dan Pink and Brene Brown, this game-changing guide offers counterintuitive techniques that transform difficult colleagues into valuable allies. What's your most challenging work relationship?
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The Relationship Revolution at Work
Have you ever noticed how the people you work with can make or break your day? While 70% of our job satisfaction comes from workplace relationships, most of us leave these crucial connections entirely to chance. We exchange pleasantries, dive into tasks, and hope for the best - until inevitable misunderstandings and conflicts emerge. This passive approach manifests in various ways: avoiding difficult conversations, making assumptions about others' intentions, and letting small frustrations accumulate without addressing them. When relationships deteriorate, most people simply resign themselves to disappointment, treating damaged connections as an unavoidable cost of doing business. But what if there was another way? What if, instead of leaving our most important professional relationships to chance, we could intentionally design them for success? This revolutionary premise - that working relationships can and should be deliberately crafted - forms the foundation of a powerful framework for transforming how we connect with colleagues, bosses, clients, and everyone else in our professional orbit. Like regular maintenance for a car or health checkups for our bodies, our working relationships need consistent attention to remain healthy and productive. The payoff? Greater success, deeper satisfaction, and work that feels meaningful rather than draining.
The Best Possible Relationship: Safety, Vitality, and Repair
Unleashing Your Best Self: The Amplify Question
Learning from Past Relationships: The Good and Bad Date Questions
Preparing for Inevitable Breakdowns and Ongoing Maintenance
The Foundation of Everything: We Are Our Relationships
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"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
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"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
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"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
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"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
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"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
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"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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