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Chatter
Ethan Kross
3.96 (22676 Reviews)
Psychology
Self-growth
Mindfulness
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Overview of Chatter

Ever wonder why your inner voice can be your worst enemy? Ethan Kross, director of Michigan's Emotion & Self Control Lab, reveals how to transform destructive mental chatter into your greatest ally - featuring insights from LeBron James, Malala, and the science behind our most powerful conversations: the ones with ourselves.

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When Your Mind Won't Shut Up

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Have you ever found yourself replaying an embarrassing moment over and over, each mental rerun somehow more mortifying than the last? Or perhaps you've lain awake at night, your mind spinning catastrophic scenarios about tomorrow's presentation, next week's bills, or that text you sent three hours ago that still hasn't been answered. This isn't just worry - it's chatter, and it's one of the most universal yet underappreciated forces shaping our lives. That relentless inner voice, the one that narrates your day and critiques your choices, can be your greatest asset or your worst enemy. The difference lies not in silencing it - an impossible task - but in learning to direct it. Understanding this internal dialogue may be the most important psychological skill you never knew you needed.

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The Voice That Powers and Paralyzes You

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How Chatter Hijacks Your Brain and Destroys Your Relationships

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Your Thoughts Are Literally Aging You

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The Superpower of Talking to Yourself in Third Person

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Seeking Support Without Drowning in Co-Rumination

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How Your Environment Quiets or Amplifies Your Inner Voice

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