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A Change of Affection by Becket Cook Summary

A Change of Affection
Becket Cook
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From Hollywood set designer to devout Christian, Becket Cook's transformation challenges identity politics in our culture. Eric Metaxas called his journey "moving," inspiring friends to explore faith. Can sexual identity truly be changed by a chance encounter at a coffee shop?

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From Hollywood Elite to Divine Encounter: A Radical Transformation

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Imagine being at the pinnacle of Hollywood success-attending Oscar parties with A-list celebrities, designing for fashion magazines like Vogue, and fully embracing your gay identity-only to walk away from it all after a single encounter with God. This is precisely what happened to Becket Cook on September 20, 2009, when he wandered into an evangelical church in Los Angeles and experienced what he describes as an overwhelming divine presence that changed everything. In that moment, as someone prayed for him, Cook felt an unmistakable flood of warmth and power that left him sobbing uncontrollably. Suddenly, everything became crystal clear: God was real, Jesus was real, and the Bible was absolute truth. What makes this story so compelling isn't just the dramatic nature of the conversion, but how it challenges our assumptions about identity, happiness, and what we're willing to sacrifice for what we believe to be true. How does someone walk away from everything they've built their life around when confronted with what they perceive as ultimate truth?

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