You Only Die Once by Jodi Wellman Summary
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Confront your mortality to truly live. Jodi Wellman's guide transforms death anxiety into purposeful action through her "pre-mortem" strategy. Adam Grant calls it "a breath of fresh air" - a surprisingly fun roadmap to ensure your finite time yields zero regrets.
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The Uncomfortable Truth That Changes Everything
What if I told you that thinking about death could make you more alive? It sounds backward, doesn't it? We spend most of our lives avoiding any mention of mortality, changing the subject when it comes up, treating death like an embarrassing relative we don't invite to dinner. But here's the twist: that avoidance might be killing the very life we're trying to protect. Consider this-you have roughly four thousand Mondays left. Not four thousand weeks or days, but Mondays. That number suddenly feels different, doesn't it? Less abstract, more urgent. This isn't about morbid obsession; it's about waking up from the trance most of us sleepwalk through. When executive coach Jodi Wellman found folders full of her mother's unrealized dreams after she died, something clicked. All those "somedays" had run out of days. The realization sparked a radical question: What if acknowledging our deadline-the ultimate one-could finally get us off autopilot and into actually living? There's a difference between being alive and actually living, and most of us know it instinctively. Think about your last week. Did you play to win or play not to lose? Did you persist when things got hard, or did you retreat to what felt safe? Those living meaningfully embrace failure as education, seek variety, say yes to opportunities that scare them, and consciously prioritize what matters. Meanwhile, those "living a wee bit dead inside" settle into comfort zones, quit when challenged, fear failure, fall into numbing routines, say no reflexively, and let life happen to them rather than shaping it intentionally.
Taking Stock and Finding Your Territory
Death as Teacher and the Two Paths It Opens
Learning from the Edge and Engineering Epiphanies
Living Wider Through Vitality and Zest
Living Deeper Through Meaning and Purpose
Your Mondays Are Running Out - What Now?
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"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
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"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
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"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
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