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You Mean I’m Not Lazy, Stupid or Crazy?!
Kate Kelly and Peggy Ramundo
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Psychology
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Productivity
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Discover why 250,000+ adults with ADHD found liberation in this groundbreaking guide. The first self-help book written by ADHD adults for ADHD adults, revealing why you're not "lazy, stupid, or crazy" - just wired differently. Your wandering mind might be your greatest superpower.

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When Everything You Believed About Yourself Was Wrong

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What if the story you've been telling yourself for decades-that you're fundamentally lazy, hopelessly disorganized, or just not trying hard enough-turned out to be completely false? For millions of adults, this revelation arrives not through dramatic intervention but through a quiet moment of recognition: reading a description of ADHD and suddenly seeing their entire life reflected back at them. Before 1993, when this groundbreaking book first appeared, adult ADHD was virtually invisible. Publishers rejected the manuscript, insisting no market existed for such a book. They were spectacularly wrong. What began as a self-published labor of love became the definitive guide for adults navigating a condition that affects somewhere between 3-5% of the population-though some estimates suggest the number could be four times higher. Today, celebrities from Adam Levine to Emma Watson speak openly about their ADHD, but three decades ago, adults with these struggles had no framework for understanding why life felt so inexplicably difficult.

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Your Brain Isn't Broken - It's Wired Differently

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Living Inside a Mind That Never Stops

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The Memory Maze and Social Minefield

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The Hidden Struggles Women Face

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Finding Your Path to Recovery

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The World Needs Your Different Brain

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