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Wired for Intimacy
William M. Struthers
3.97 (825 Reviews)
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Discover how pornography physically rewires the male brain, hijacking natural intimacy circuits. Endorsed by leading addiction specialists, Struthers' groundbreaking work blends neuroscience with theology to explain why men struggle and - more importantly - how they can reclaim authentic connection beyond the screen.

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The Neurological Hijacking of Male Sexuality

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What if every click on a pornographic image was physically rewiring your brain, fundamentally altering how you perceive women? This isn't science fiction-it's the sobering reality William Struthers reveals in his groundbreaking exploration of how pornography reshapes the male mind. By integrating cutting-edge neuroscience with deep psychological insights, Struthers exposes how pornography exploits natural male neurological tendencies while corrupting our capacity for genuine intimacy. In a culture where pornography has moved from seedy corners into our pockets via smartphones, understanding its neurological impact has never been more crucial. The $57 billion global sex industry isn't just selling images-it's rewiring minds, one neural pathway at a time.

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Our Pornography-Saturated Culture

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The Counterfeit Promise of Intimacy

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The Neuroscience of Arousal and Attachment

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Reimagining Masculinity and God's Image

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The Path to Authentic Connection

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