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Who's Pulling Your Strings?
Harriet B. Braiker
4.06 (800 Reviews)
Psychology
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Are you being manipulated? Dr. Braiker's groundbreaking guide reveals the invisible strings controlling your life. Therapists worldwide recommend this psychological defense manual that transforms victims into empowered decision-makers. Discover why this New York Times bestselling author's approach has helped thousands reclaim their autonomy.

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The Invisible Puppeteer: How Manipulation Controls Your Life

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Ever felt that uncomfortable tug on your emotions? That subtle pressure to comply with someone's wishes against your better judgment? Manipulation exists in nearly every sphere of human interaction-from intimate relationships to workplaces, from family dynamics to friendships. What makes psychological manipulation particularly insidious is that victims unwittingly participate in their own control. Every compliance reinforces the toxic cycle, compromising self-esteem and emotional well-being. This creates a confusing internal state: you feel resentful and angry, yet simultaneously guilty for having these negative emotions. Harriet Braiker's groundbreaking work illuminates this shadowy world with compassionate precision, offering not just understanding, but practical tools to reclaim your autonomy.

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The Perfect Target: Why Some People Are More Vulnerable

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The Manipulator's Playbook: Understanding Their Tactics

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The Emotional Damage: How Manipulation Changes You

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Breaking the Spell: First Steps to Freedom

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Becoming Manipulation-Proof: Transforming Your Thinking

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Reclaiming Your Life: Stories of Liberation

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