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Unfuck Your Boundaries
Dr Faith G Harper
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Dr. Faith Harper's revolutionary guide transforms boundary-setting into a radical act of self-care. Praised as "revelatory" by mental health professionals, this practical toolkit bridges personal empowerment with social justice. Ever wondered why healthy boundaries prevent burnout? Discover why consent culture starts with you.

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The Boundary Revolution: Reclaiming Your Space

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Have you ever felt that uncomfortable sensation when someone stands too close, asks invasive questions, or demands more of your time than you want to give? That discomfort isn't you being "too sensitive" - it's your boundary system functioning exactly as nature designed it. Boundaries mark the essential limits between what belongs to us and what belongs to others, forming the fundamental architecture of all human relationships. They take countless forms: physical ("please don't touch me without asking"), emotional ("I need space to process this"), intellectual ("I don't want to debate politics at family gatherings"), and beyond. What makes boundaries so fascinating is their fluidity - they change across relationships, evolve throughout our lives, and shift depending on context. When we fail to establish them, resentment inevitably builds. When we honor them, we create the conditions for authentic connection.

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The Biology and Politics of Boundaries

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Attachment Patterns and Boundary Development

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Honoring Others' Boundaries

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The Courage to Choose Your Own Limits

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