The Self-Driven Child by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson Summary
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Discover why neuropsychologists call autonomy the secret weapon for raising resilient kids. Endorsed by bestselling author Paul Tough, this revolutionary guide shows how stepping back actually propels children forward. NPR agrees: stop micromanaging and watch your child thrive.
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When Your Child's Anxiety Reveals What's Really Wrong
Why are today's children five to eight times more anxious than kids during the Great Depression? The answer isn't what you'd expect. It's not smartphones alone, or academic pressure, or even social media-though these all play a role. The real culprit is something more fundamental: a profound loss of control over their own lives. Think about it. When did your child last make a meaningful decision about their day? Their schedule? Their future? For most kids, the answer is sobering. We've created a generation where every hour is managed, every choice is supervised, and every mistake is prevented-and their brains are paying the price. The research is startling. A sense of control isn't just nice to have; it's the single most important factor in human wellbeing. Lab studies show that rats who believe they can stop electric shocks experience dramatically lower stress-even when their wheel isn't actually connected to anything. The perception of control alone changes their brain chemistry. Now consider your teenager, whose entire day-from wake-up time to bedtime-is dictated by others. Their stress response isn't overreacting; it's responding rationally to a genuine threat: powerlessness.
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"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
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"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
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"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
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