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What if finding "the one" isn't about chemistry, but purpose? Gary Thomas's bestselling guide challenges the soul mate myth, offering a biblical framework that's transformed millions of relationships. Discover why the question isn't who you marry - but why.
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Love Beyond Chemistry: The Sacred Search for a Lifelong Partner
When tears fall at the ten-year mark of marriage, what story will they tell? I've witnessed two contrasting scenes: a pastor whose marriage feels like a crushing burden, and a woman whose tears flow from overwhelming gratitude for her supportive husband. These aren't isolated incidents - they represent the stark reality that approximately 42% of marriages end in divorce, while countless others persist in quiet desperation. What makes the difference between marriages that thrive and those that merely survive? The answer lies not in finding the perfect person, but in understanding what marriage truly is: not primarily a romantic relationship, but a sacred partnership with eternal purpose. "Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness" guides every aspect of Christian life - except, mysteriously, when choosing someone to marry. Here, we suddenly abandon kingdom priorities for feelings, chemistry, and romantic excitement. This cultural obsession with romance as the foundation for marriage simply isn't working. Despite more people demanding romantic love as a prerequisite for marriage since the 1960s, marriages have become less satisfying and divorce rates have climbed steadily.
The Deception of Infatuation and Our Cultural Blindness
Wisdom Over Feelings: What Truly Matters in Marriage
Soul Mate or Sole Mate? Reframing Our Understanding of Partnership
Intentional Pursuit: Walking Toward the Music
Building a Strong Marriage: Essential Character Qualities
Marriage with Eternal Purpose: Beyond Personal Happiness
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"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
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