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The How of Happiness
Sonja Lyubomirsky
3.9 (10341 Reviews)
Psychology
Self-growth
Mindfulness
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Discover the science of lasting joy with UC Riverside's top-ranked psychologist. "The How of Happiness" shatters the myth that circumstances determine happiness, revealing that 40% is within your control. What daily activity could triple your happiness starting today?

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Here's a startling truth: if you won the lottery tomorrow, you'd likely return to your current happiness level within a few months. Conversely, if you experienced a devastating loss, you'd probably recover emotionally faster than you imagine. This isn't pessimism-it's science revealing something liberating. While half your happiness comes from genetics and only 10% from life circumstances, a full 40% depends entirely on what you do and how you think each day. That's the revolutionary finding that's transformed how we understand well-being. This isn't about positive thinking platitudes or self-help gimmicks. It's about evidence-based strategies that actually work, tested across thousands of participants in psychology labs worldwide. The question isn't whether you can become happier-it's whether you're willing to invest the effort. Research confirms happiness skills are learnable at any age. From college students to retirees, studies document significant improvements when people commit to evidence-based practices. In a world increasingly focused on material success and external achievements, this approach redirects attention to what truly matters: how you think about and engage with your life each day.

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The Gratitude Revolution and Optimism's Self-Fulfilling Power

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Breaking Free From Mental Traps and Cultivating Kindness

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Living Fully Through Flow, Savoring, and Present Awareness

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