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The Highly Sensitive Person's Guide to Dealing with Toxic People
Shahida Arabi
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Psychology
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Mindfulness
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Discover the survival guide for sensitive souls navigating toxic relationships. With a stellar 4.5/5 Goodreads rating, this CBT-based handbook decodes manipulation tactics like gaslighting and stonewalling. Ever wondered why empaths attract narcissists? Your emotional freedom starts here.

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When Your Greatest Strength Becomes Your Vulnerability

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A single article reached eighteen million people worldwide-not because it went viral by accident, but because it named something millions of highly sensitive people had experienced but couldn't articulate: the unique agony of being exploited for your empathy. If you've ever felt your kindness weaponized against you, or wondered why toxic people seem to find you with uncanny precision, you're not alone. High sensitivity isn't a character flaw-it's a neurological reality affecting one in five people. Yet in a culture that mistakes boundaries for coldness and empathy for weakness, sensitive souls often become prime targets for manipulators who recognize their gifts and exploit them ruthlessly.

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The Science Behind Your Sensitivity

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Not All Toxic People Are Created Equal

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The Manipulation Playbook

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Breaking the Biochemical Chains

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Building Your Protective Boundaries

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Reclaiming Your Sensitive Power

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