The Confidence Gap by Russ Harris Summary
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In "The Confidence Gap," ACT specialist Russ Harris reveals why waiting to feel confident before taking action keeps you stuck. Discover the revolutionary "confidence cycle" that transformed countless lives by embracing fear rather than fighting it. What if confidence follows action, not precedes it?
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When Waiting for Confidence Keeps You Stuck
What if everything you've been told about confidence is backwards? Picture a young Nelson Mandela pacing his cell on Robben Island, hands trembling, heart racing with fear. Now imagine him stepping out to address his captors with unwavering resolve. The difference wasn't that his fear disappeared - it was that he moved anyway. This paradox sits at the heart of a quiet revolution in how we understand confidence. From Olympic training facilities to Fortune 500 boardrooms, a counterintuitive truth is taking hold: confidence isn't something you feel before you act. It's something you build by acting despite how you feel. We've inherited a fundamental confusion about what confidence actually means. The first definition - confidence as a feeling of certainty - dominates our cultural imagination. It's what we see in movie heroes and hear in motivational speeches. But there's an older, more powerful definition rooted in Latin: confidence as "an act of trust or reliance." This isn't about feeling sure; it's about moving forward despite uncertainty. When you trust a surgeon to operate, you're not eliminating fear - you're acting alongside it. This reveals the first principle of genuine confidence: action comes first, feelings follow. Yet this simple truth collides with our mind's sophisticated resistance. "It's too hard," it whispers. "You're too busy. You'll fail anyway." These aren't character flaws - they're the predictable protests of a mind doing exactly what evolution designed it to do: keep you safe by keeping you still.
The Five Thieves That Steal Your Courage and How to Reclaim It
Unhooking from the Stories Your Mind Tells
Beyond Self-Esteem to Self-Acceptance and Making Room for Fear
The Power of Presence Over Perfection
Living by What Matters Most
The Courage to Continue
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"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
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