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Talking to Strangers by Malcolm Gladwell Summary

Talking to Strangers
Malcolm Gladwell
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Psychology
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Why do strangers so often misunderstand each other? Malcolm Gladwell's provocative exploration reveals our fatal flaws in judging others. Endorsed by Oprah as "life-changing," this book challenges everything from policing tactics to how we interpret facial expressions. The Sandra Bland case will haunt you.

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Sandra Bland should have driven away with a warning. Instead, a routine traffic stop in Prairie View, Texas spiraled into a confrontation that ended with her death in a jail cell three days later. The officer escalated. She resisted. And what began as a failure to signal became a national symbol of the fractured relationship between police and Black Americans during the rise of the Black Lives Matter movement. But here's the unsettling question: Was this really about one bad cop and one defiant woman? Or does it reveal something far more universal about how we interact with people we don't know? We navigate a world filled with strangers-on streets, in courtrooms, across borders-yet we're shockingly bad at reading them. We trust our instincts, our gut feelings, the supposed transparency of a face. And time and again, we get it catastrophically wrong.

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Why the Smartest Spies Got Fooled

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The Face That Lies

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The Mismatched Innocent

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When Alcohol Erases the Line

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Why Context Trumps Character

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The Convergence of All Our Failures

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