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Social: Why Our Brains Are Wired to Connect
Matthew D. Lieberman
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Society
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Discover why social pain hurts like physical pain in Lieberman's groundbreaking neuroscience exploration. Challenging traditional education and business models, "Social" reveals our brains are fundamentally wired for connection - a revelation transforming how leading organizations approach human potential and wellbeing.

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Why Loneliness Hurts Like a Broken Bone

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What if I told you that heartbreak registers in your brain the same way a fractured rib does? When Gloria lost Irv after fifty years of marriage, her family thought she'd developed dementia. She hadn't. Her brain was simply processing social loss as physical injury-because that's exactly what it is. We've spent centuries building societies around the myth of rational self-interest, assuming humans are fundamentally selfish creatures who occasionally cooperate when it benefits us. But neuroscience reveals something far more profound: our brains didn't evolve for solitary survival. They evolved for connection. Social bonds aren't a pleasant addition to human life-they're the foundation. Understanding this rewires everything we thought we knew about motivation, happiness, and what it means to be human.

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Your Brain's Secret Obsession With Social Connection

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The Pain That Leaves No Bruises and the Biology of Connection

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The Hidden Rewards of Fairness and the Joy of Giving

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Two Systems for Reading Minds and Understanding Others

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The Self as Social Construct and the Power of Perception

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Redesigning Everything for Social Brains

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