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So Not Meant To Be
Meghan Quinn
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When enemies share a San Francisco penthouse, sparks fly. This Goodreads sensation (95,574 ratings!) features JP Cane - a man who designs tuxedos for pigeons. Can men and women be friends? Quinn's modern "When Harry Met Sally" twist answers with sizzling chemistry.

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When Opposites Attract: The Chemistry of Hate and Desire

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Kelsey Gardner can't stand JP Cane. He's everything that irritates her-disorganized, arrogant, and infuriatingly handsome with his perfectly maintained beard and mysterious tattoos peeking from beneath rolled sleeves. As a "sustainable organizer" at Cane Enterprises, Kelsey values structure, planning, and professionalism. JP, with his chaotic office and playboy reputation, represents everything she opposes. Their first encounter in the break room sets the tone: a heated debate about whether men and women can maintain purely platonic work relationships. JP insists attraction always complicates things; Kelsey passionately argues otherwise. What makes their antagonism so electric is what lurks beneath. JP, having lost his parents as a teenager, experiences unprecedented thoughts of permanence with Kelsey that trigger his defense mechanisms. His juvenile behaviors-deliberately messing his desk, scheduling conflicts with her calendar-serve as shields against growing feelings. Meanwhile, Kelsey guards her own secret: that brief window when she first arrived at the company, before learning his reputation, when she'd entertained possibilities. Their colleagues gather like spectators to witness their verbal volleys. When JP calls her "babe" in meetings, Kelsey's resulting tirades carry undertones far more personal than workplace protocol. The office pools aren't about if they'll get together, but when. Like opposing magnetic poles, their differences don't just attract-they create an irreversible bond.

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The Blind Date That Changed Everything

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The Vulnerabilities We Hide

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San Francisco: Where Everything Changes

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When Desire Meets Emotional Connection

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Finding Each Other After Loss

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From Enemies to Forever

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