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Sh*t I Say to Myself
Katie Krimer
3.71 (256 Reviews)
Psychology
Mindfulness
Self-growth
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In "Sh*t I Say to Myself," psychotherapist Katie Krimer delivers a snarky yet hopeful guide to ghosting your negative thoughts. Using CBT and mindfulness techniques, this irreverent mental health handbook helps you transform toxic self-talk into confidence - one brutal inner monologue at a time.

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The Voice Inside Your Head That Shapes Everything

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Ever caught yourself saying something so cruel to yourself that you'd never dare say it to another person? You're far from alone. For thousands of people, the harshest critic they'll ever face lives inside their own mind. This internal dialogue shapes everything-from how we see ourselves to the opportunities we pursue or avoid. The constant stream of thoughts flowing through our consciousness-upwards of 60,000 daily-creates the backdrop against which we live our lives. While some of these thoughts uplift and encourage us, many tear us down with remarkable precision, targeting our deepest insecurities with laser-like accuracy. What makes this pattern particularly troubling is how natural it feels-these thoughts seem less like choices and more like facts about who we truly are.

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Why Our Brains Are Wired for Negativity

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The Myth That You Can't Change

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Curiosity: Your Mind's Most Powerful Tool

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Questioning What You've Always Believed

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Living in the Present Moment

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Embracing Your Perfectly Imperfect Humanity

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