
"Own Your Armor" reveals how defensive behaviors sabotage workplace culture. Endorsed by Meta's Amy Hayes as "a master class on team dynamics," this revolutionary visual approach transforms toxic teams. What psychological armor are you wearing that's killing your career potential?
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As a psychologist and executive coach with over 25 years of experience, I've seen firsthand how workplace conflicts can derail even the most promising teams. In my work, I've discovered that the root of most team dysfunction isn't just "difficult people" or poor leadership - it's the invisible armor we all put on when we feel threatened. Think about the last time you were in a tense meeting or disagreement with a colleague. Did you find yourself becoming defensive, passive-aggressive, or shutting down? That's your armor at work. We all have these protective mechanisms, but when an entire team armors up, it creates a cycle of mistrust and dysfunction that's hard to break. In this book, I'll show you a new way to approach team conflict - one that gets to the heart of what's really going on beneath the surface. By learning to recognize and "own" our armor, we can create revolutionary change in workplace culture.
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