Overcoming Perfectionism by Roz Shafran & Sarah Egan & Tracey Wade Summary
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Break perfectionism's grip with this clinically-proven guide recommended by therapists worldwide. Using CBT techniques, Shafran reveals why the pursuit of flawlessness leads to anxiety and depression. What if your greatest strength is actually sabotaging your happiness?
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The Perfectionist's Prison: When Excellence Becomes Toxic
Perfectionism isn't simply having high standards - it's a relentless pursuit that chains your self-worth to achievement. Consider Aimee, who spent six exhausting hours cleaning her house for dinner guests, yet could only focus on imperfections despite her guests having a wonderful time. This illustrates perfectionism's cruel irony: even when you succeed, you discount the achievement as "too easy" and immediately raise the bar higher. The condition creates a self-perpetuating cycle: impossible standards lead to selective attention on failures, triggering self-criticism and lowered mood, which then drives even harder goals - essentially guaranteeing eventual failure. What makes this particularly insidious is how it masquerades as virtue while slowly eroding your wellbeing. But here's the hopeful truth: research from King's College London confirms this cycle can be broken through cognitive behavioral approaches, creating a positive ripple effect that improves self-esteem and overall mental health.
When Perfectionism Fuels Mental Health Struggles and Behavioral Traps
Breaking Free: The First Steps Toward Change
Evidence-Based Tools: Experiments That Challenge Beliefs
From Black-and-White to Shades of Gray
From Self-Criticism to Self-Compassion and Freedom
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"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
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