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Love People, Use Things
Joshua Fields Millburn & Ryan Nicodemus
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In "Love People, Use Things," The Minimalists reveal why relationships trump possessions. With 140 million podcast downloads, their anti-consumerism philosophy has sparked a decluttering revolution. Readers often stop mid-chapter to reorganize their homes - will you find what truly matters?

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When Everything Feels Like Nothing

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We live surrounded by more than we could ever need, yet somehow it's never enough. The average American household contains over 300,000 items. Three hundred thousand. And yet, when asked what brings meaning to their lives, no one points to their closets, their garages, or their storage units. Instead, they speak of moments with people they love, experiences that changed them, connections that sustained them. So why do we keep accumulating? Why do half of all households have no savings while our homes bulge with unused possessions? The answer lies in a fundamental confusion: we've reversed the equation. We love things and use people, when it should be the opposite. This reversal doesn't happen overnight-it's a gradual drift, one purchase at a time, until we wake up drowning in debt and stuff, wondering why success feels so hollow. Before the pandemic, Americans collectively owed more than $14 trillion in debt. The average person carried four credit cards with over $16,000 in balances. Sixty-two percent couldn't produce $1,000 for an emergency-even among high earners. This isn't about income; it's about spending. We've expanded our lives in every direction: homes have doubled in size over fifty years, we maintain 52,000 storage facilities (six times the number of Starbucks), and our garages overflow with items we've forgotten we own. American children possess 40% of the world's toys yet play with only 12 of their average 200 daily. If everyone consumed like Americans, we'd need nearly five Earths. The true cost extends beyond purchase prices-every possession demands space, maintenance, repair, eventual replacement, and emotional bandwidth. We cling to rotary phones and cassette tapes out of nostalgia, filling basements and attics with things we no longer use.

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The Stories That Changed Everything and the Packing Party Revolution

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Six Essential Questions and the Freedom We're Actually Seeking

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Living With Truth, Connection, and Health

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Financial Freedom and the New American Dream

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Creating Space for What Truly Matters

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The Only Thing Worth Keeping

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