Leadership and Self-Deception by The Arbinger Institute Summary
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Discover why nearly 3 million readers consider "Leadership and Self-Deception" their career game-changer. Stephen Covey called it "profound," while NFL MVP Steve Young applies its "in-the-box" concept beyond business. What self-deception is sabotaging your leadership today?
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The Invisible Prison We Build for Ourselves
Imagine a baby learning to crawl who gets stuck under furniture by pushing backward. She cries and thrashes, pushing harder which only worsens her predicament. If she could speak, she'd blame the furniture, completely blind to how her own actions create her problem. This powerful metaphor illustrates the core concept of "the box" - a state of self-deception where we see others not as people with legitimate needs like ourselves, but as objects that either help or hinder our objectives. When we're "in the box," our perception becomes fundamentally distorted. We inflate others' faults while exaggerating our own virtues. We blame others for problems we've helped create. What makes this concept so revolutionary is that it explains why so many workplace and relationship improvement efforts fail. When we're in the box, even our solutions become part of the problem. We might implement new communication protocols or accountability systems, but if we're seeing colleagues as problems to be fixed rather than people to be understood, we're doomed to failure. The most dangerous aspect is its invisibility - when we're in the box, we're convinced we're seeing things clearly, making it particularly resistant to conventional problem-solving approaches.
How We Trap Ourselves: The Betrayal That Starts It All
The Contagion That Spreads Through Organizations
Breaking Free: The Path Out of the Box
Leadership Transformed: Results Through People
Real-World Applications: From Theory to Practice
The Choice That Changes Everything
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"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
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