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If You’re So Smart, Why Aren’t you Happy?
Raj Raghunathan
3.79 (963 Reviews)
Psychology
Self-growth
Business
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Why do smart, successful people often feel unfulfilled? Raj Raghunathan's acclaimed guide - paired with his top-rated Coursera course - reveals the seven "deadly happiness sins" that trap high achievers. Discover why chasing superiority actually blocks your path to genuine joy.

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Why do smart, successful people often struggle with happiness? This question haunted Raj Raghunathan, who transformed from a carefree child into a stressed academic before realizing something vital was missing. The fundamental happiness paradox he discovered is both simple and profound: we consistently make choices that undermine our happiness despite claiming it's our top priority. When business students were asked which job would make them happier-a high-paying but stressful position or a lower-paying but rewarding one-78% chose the rewarding job. Yet under simulated interview pressure, more than half selected the higher-paying option instead. This disconnect affects thousands of our daily decisions. We devalue happiness for three key reasons: it seems too abstract compared to concrete goals like money; we harbor negative beliefs about happiness (fearing it breeds laziness); and we fall prey to "medium maximization"-pursuing means (like money) while forgetting our ultimate goal. The solution isn't directly chasing happiness-that backfires spectacularly. Like trying to force sleep, the harder we pursue happiness, the more elusive it becomes.

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