
In "How to Walk into a Room," Emily P. Freeman masterfully guides readers through life's pivotal transitions, offering wisdom on when to stay and when to walk away. Her vulnerable personal journey - leaving her church and navigating her child's sexuality questioning - creates an authentic roadmap for anyone facing life's crossroads.
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Life is like a house with many rooms. Each room represents a commitment, a community, a role, or a relationship we've entered. As we journey through life, we find ourselves walking into new rooms, leaving old ones, being locked out of some, and questioning whether it's time to move on from others. This book is about making decisions - specifically, deciding when to stay in a situation, relationship, or job, and when to walk away. It's about learning to discern the right time to enter or exit the various rooms of our lives. I've come to realize that every decision is unique to the person, and every person is unique to the decision. We all approach our choices from our own point of view, through our own set of personal filters, and with a particular posture that's baked into our personality. But regardless of our individual approaches, we often find ourselves asking similar questions: Should I stay or is it time to leave? How bad does something have to be before I can let it go? What if I stay and nothing changes? What if I leave and everything falls apart? These are the questions we'll explore together as we learn how to walk into - and out of - the rooms of our lives with grace, wisdom, and confidence.
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