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How Children Succeed
Paul Tough
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Paul Tough's groundbreaking bestseller challenges conventional wisdom: grit and character - not just IQ - determine success. Translated into 27 languages, it's transformed educational policies worldwide by revealing how adversity shapes resilience. What childhood experience is secretly determining your future?

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The Hidden Ingredient: What Really Makes Children Succeed

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Picture a prekindergarten classroom in New Jersey where something extraordinary is happening. No teacher is barking commands. No children are acting out. Instead, four-year-olds are calmly organizing their thoughts, controlling their impulses, and staying focused on tasks - all without traditional discipline. This isn't magic. It's the Tools of the Mind curriculum, designed to develop self-regulation rather than drill ABCs and 123s. When Paul Tough witnessed this scene shortly after his son's birth, it shattered his assumptions about early childhood education. America has spent decades obsessing over the "cognitive hypothesis" - the belief that success depends primarily on measurable intelligence. We've built entire industries around "brain-building" products, shaped education policy around test scores, and convinced ourselves that stuffing information into young minds is the path to prosperity. But what if we've been wrong all along? What if the secret ingredient isn't cognitive horsepower but something far more fundamental - character? Nobel laureate James Heckman stumbled upon a paradox that would revolutionize our understanding of success. In the late 1990s, he examined the GED program, which by 2001 was producing nearly one in five new high school "graduates." The logic seemed airtight: if someone could pass a comprehensive equivalency test, they should be academically equal to traditional graduates. But Heckman's data told a different story - a disturbing one. GED recipients demonstrated cognitive abilities matching high school graduates on standardized tests, yet their life trajectories looked nothing alike. At age twenty-two, only 3 percent of GED holders were enrolled in four-year universities compared to 46 percent of traditional graduates. More troubling still, GED holders showed patterns eerily similar to high school dropouts - comparable unemployment rates, similar incomes, equivalent divorce rates, and parallel substance abuse patterns - despite being demonstrably smarter. The missing element? Psychological traits that enabled persistence: delaying gratification, maintaining focus on long-term goals, following through on commitments, adapting to social environments, and managing stress.

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The Biology of Adversity and Its Powerful Antidote

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Measuring Character: The Challenge of Quantifying the Intangible

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The Paradox of Privilege: When Protection Becomes Prison

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Mastery Through Practice: Lessons from Chess and Flow

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The College Completion Crisis: Why Getting In Isn't Enough

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The Road Forward: Rewriting the Story of Success

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