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Forgiving What You Can't Forget
Lysa TerKeurst
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In "Forgiving What You Can't Forget," #1 NYT bestseller Lysa TerKeurst offers a revolutionary path through unresolved pain. Can you heal without an apology? This spiritual guide has transformed countless lives, ranking among readers' "top 5 books that Changed Me."

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Have you ever rehearsed a conversation in your head so many times that you've worn a groove in your mind? You know every word they said, every facial expression, every moment when your world tilted sideways. The betrayal plays on repeat, and no matter how many times you tell yourself to move on, your body tenses at the mere mention of their name. This is where forgiveness stops being a Sunday school lesson and becomes a survival skill. When your husband's affair shatters twenty-five years of marriage, when childhood abuse steals your sense of safety, when someone you trusted weaponizes your vulnerability-forgiveness doesn't feel like a gift. It feels impossible. Yet here's the paradox: the very thing that seems most impossible might be the only thing that sets you free. Forgiveness isn't about excusing what happened or pretending it didn't hurt. It's about refusing to let the worst thing that happened to you become the biggest thing about you.

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The Grace That Must Flow Through You

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Reclaiming Your Memories From the Thief

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The Decision That Launches the Journey

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The Story Behind Your Story

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When You Can't Change the Unchangeable

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The Freedom to Release What You Cannot Control

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