Exactly What to Say by Phil M Jones Summary
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Master communicator Phil M. Jones reveals 22 "magic words" that trigger subconscious responses and influence decisions instantly. Just imagine - these phrases have helped millions across 50 countries close deals, land jobs, and win arguments. What could you achieve with the right words?
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Words That Shape Decisions: The Hidden Power of Language
Ever noticed how some people effortlessly get their way while others struggle to make an impact? The difference often boils down to a handful of carefully chosen words. In a world where we make thousands of decisions daily, knowing exactly what to say at crucial moments gives you an almost unfair advantage in any interaction. The most powerful persuasion doesn't rely on complex psychology or manipulative tactics - it's about understanding how tiny language shifts can dramatically change conversation outcomes. When you grasp how the human brain makes decisions, you can align your words to create pathways of least resistance toward agreement. Our brains aren't designed for perfect logic - they're wired for quick, efficient choices. The subconscious mind processes information 500 times faster than our conscious mind, making split-second decisions before we're even aware of them. Think about your own important choices. Do you carefully analyze every option with perfect logic? Or do you often "go with your gut" and then rationalize that choice afterward? Research consistently shows that emotions drive decisions first, with logic following to justify what we've already decided. This explains why traditional persuasion techniques focusing solely on facts often fail. The most effective persuasive language works because it bypasses resistance and speaks directly to the decision-making part of the brain.
Creating Pressure-Free Environments for Ideas
From Certainty to Doubt: Questioning Knowledge Foundations
Emotional Time Travel and Visualization
The Language of Possibility and Social Proof
Closing Conversations and Gaining Agreement
The Art of Persuasive Communication: Practice Makes Permanent
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"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
"The themed book list podcasts help me connect ideas across authors—like a guided audio journey."
"Makes me feel smarter every time before going to work"
"Instead of endless scrolling, I just hit play on BeFreed. It saves me so much time."
"I never knew where to start with nonfiction—BeFreed’s book lists turned into podcasts gave me a clear path."
"Perfect balance between learning and entertainment. Finished ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ on my commute this week."
"Crazy how much I learned while walking the dog. BeFreed = small habits → big gains."
"Reading used to feel like a chore. Now it’s just part of my lifestyle."
"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
"BeFreed turned my commute into learning time. 20-min podcasts are perfect for finishing books I never had time for."
"BeFreed replaced my podcast queue. Imagine Spotify for books — that’s it. 🙌"
"It is great for me to learn something from the book without reading it."
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