
Ali Wong's raw, hilarious letters to her daughters reveal untold secrets no one under 21 should read. This NYT bestseller had readers confessing, "I couldn't put it down!" Wonder why this comedian's unfiltered take on sex, identity and immigrant family dynamics became required reading?
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Imagine a woman seven months pregnant, standing on stage delivering raunchy jokes about sex and relationships while her belly protrudes prominently. This was Ali Wong's breakout moment in her Netflix special "Baby Cobra" - shattering comedy norms and catapulting her to stardom. Behind the shocking punchlines of her memoir "Dear Girls" lies something profound: letters to her daughters (not to be opened until they're 21) that serve as a blueprint for authenticity in a world that often demands women be anything but themselves. As Wong confesses in her opening lines, "I'm a fucking idiot" - setting the tone for perhaps the most refreshingly honest celebrity memoir of our time. What makes this book resonate so deeply with everyone from young women to Michelle Obama is its unapologetic examination of the messy realities we rarely discuss openly.
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