Conflict Communication by Rory Miller Summary
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Discover how your three brains - lizard, monkey, human - sabotage communication during conflict. Award-winning "Conflict Communication" teaches de-escalation tactics used in eight countries across hospitals and prisons. Why do police officers swear by Miller's framework for defusing violence before it explodes?
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When Your Brain Hijacks Your Mouth
A corrections officer stands face-to-face with an inmate who's just been denied parole. The air thickens. One wrong word could trigger a riot. But here's the twist: the same neurological patterns governing this life-or-death moment are running in the background when you argue with your spouse about dirty dishes, when your coworker dismisses your presentation, when a stranger cuts you off in traffic. We like to think we're rational creatures who occasionally get emotional. The truth is far more unsettling: we're emotional creatures who occasionally think rationally. Rory Miller spent decades in maximum-security prisons discovering that conflict follows predictable scripts-ancient patterns that hijack our minds before we realize what's happening. Understanding these patterns doesn't just help you survive dangerous encounters; it transforms how you navigate every difficult conversation in your life.
Three Brains, One Skull: The Hidden Architecture of Conflict
The Game You Didn't Know You Were Playing
The Scripts Running Your Life and the Hooks That Control You
Why Smart People Keep Making the Same Mistakes
Tactical Tools for Reality
Living in the New World
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"Feels effortless compared to reading. I’ve finished 6 books this month already."
"BeFreed turned my guilty doomscrolling into something that feels productive and inspiring."
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